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Our foundation

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Recent Additions

February 6, 2010

Now and then someone asks me how to find a counselor ... my thoughts are at Finding a Therapist.

January 16, 2010

My new section on safety begins with Annette is Beaten.

January 1, 2010

I spank and paddle Steph at Yellow and Red.

December 24

Christmas Eve thoughts about safewords, at Yellow and Red (preliminary)

November 27

Randie is back, as usual for a limited time only, at 11 Handprint.

October 22

Remember Poena? Who wanted to touch herself while her girlfriend spanked her? If you are a fan of girl-on-girl spanking, don't miss her hot description of her latest adventure, at Poena 8!

September 22

I give trish a good workout with the fraternity paddle, at Trish Fraternity Paddling

August 29

When Poena's girlfriend spanks her she gets very excited... and frustrated ... read more at Poena, I Want to Touch Myself

August 22

More memoirs of childhood tawsings from A Well Tanned Lassie

August 14

Ella returns -- here is the second part of the Campus Nirvana punishment, at Ella's Punishment

August 13

I'm going to start blogging occasionally . . . see Bad Boys (not named after Steph and me, but what a coincidence) -- it's actually about passive versus dominant men

August 7

Steph spanks me regularly . . . here are three of the best, at Steph, Bad Boy Spankings

FThree spanking

July 31

Fascinating correspondence from a woman who grew up in Scotland and knows all about the dreaded Tawse . . . at A Well Tanned Lassie

July 25

Who knew that orgasm control could be so funny? Don't take my word for it . . . listen for yourself, as Susan struggles to get permission to cum. Go to Susan, then click the link at the bottom of the page . . .

July 20

Even a serious student needs a break from the rigors of college . . . listen in provide some stress relief to Ella.

July 18

Lisa describes her search for a spanking partner -- and her first spanking -- at Lisa Gets Spanked

July 10

I punish Steph twice, first with an over-the-knee spanking, and then with a (very!) intense paddling that made her frantic with pain. Both are at I Want a Safeword.

July 4, more or less

Happy Independence Day! ... In honor of America's amazing freedom of expression, I'm initiating a free service that allows you to get links to newly posted sound files ... even if your access to the web site is limited. See Sound Files to Download for details.

June 6

Sarah gives me a memorable spanking (from the 2007 archives). For fans of female-spanks-male, at Sarah, Dream in Circle.

May 3

steph gets a long, hard over the knee spanking at No Shorter or Lighter

March 30

Introducing Devora, who visited me for a birthday spanking, and more, at Devora

February 14

Happy Valentine's Day! steph gets to taste Two Straps

January 30

Cat comes for another visit at By God (I Am Going to Hurt You)

December 25

steph paddled at 40 Whacks

October 17

Doc gets spanked, part 2: Elizabeth Paddles Pledge Tsai

August 14

From the unpublished archives . . . Doc gets spanked! . . . read all about it, at J, Doc's Transformation

August 8

Trish is caned at Trish Caning (severe--but description only; no sound files or pix)

August 2

Mailbag--a new feature--with emails from UT, Mandy, and GX, at Mailbag

July 31

JB tells the story of her discipline by Michelle, at JB Strictly Pursuing Discipline

July 12

Sarah and I spank anna ... we never hurt her very much, but it was a lot of fun! (Caution: explicit photos)

Favorite Spanking Sites

Web sites

Knickers

Serijules

 soc.sexuality.spanking . . . where it all began

Blogs

Wonderful spanking blogs sprout every day. Here are some of my favorites.

All Good Things, by Paqster

All Things Spanking

AngelBrat's Blog

Ann's Spanking Blog

Au Fil Des Jours, Au Gré Du Temps (in French but with excellent graphics)

Aunty Agony, licensed spankologist

Black As My Soull

Breathing In and Breathing Out

Cassandra Park, Corporal Consultant

Chicago Spanking Review

The Dixie Within

Domestic Discipline Dreams

Drawing her OTK

Fantastic Spanking

Hungry Heart, Anxious Bottom

Inner Workings of Dixie

Jayda's Musings

Journey of a Born Spanko, by Jenni

Life in Motion, by Sparkle

Marqe's Study

Michael Masterson's blog

Mixed Blessings

Mouse's Spanking Blog

My Bottom Smarts, by Bonnie

Natty's Spanking Blog

Pablo and Mija's Treehouse

Patty's Gallery of Spanking Erotica

Pretty Perversions

Spanker Bryan's Blogspot

Spankful Delight

Spanking Bare Butts

The Spanking Bench

Spanking Blog

A Spanking Good Time

The Spanking Writers

Spankoz

TX Spankogirl

Websites for discussion & contacts

www.bondage.com

Sources for Toys, Books, etc.

Canes from Cane-IAC

Adam and Gillian's Sensual Whips and Toys

Creative Spanked Wife apparel and merchandise

Greenery Press--"reading for the sexually adventurous" (and my favorite kinky book purveyor)

Eden Fantasys--sex toys and info of all kinds; this links to their BDSM page

Sources for erotica

Ohhteekay

Over the knee spanking videos and theater

Paintoy

Net Rings

The Unofficial Assville Netring

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This web site is a home for arousal, learning, healing, and love.

Welcome.

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Are you fascinated by adult spanking (which is usually, but not always, erotic spanking)? This site is designed with the newcomer in mind, although it has resources for all aficionados of this sublime pastime. It also includes tips for parents of teens who want to know more about spanking, at Teen Guide to Spanking.

Spanking eroticism is important, and I have plenty of that here.

But there is also much for you to learn. Many people have also found healing here. Some have found love.

I am glad to have you visit.

Fast facts about adult spanking:

• Spanking is a common fantasy that is often but not always explicitly sexual ("erotic spanking")
• Most people who love spanking lead ordinary lives in every other way
• Spanking can be done safely
• If you love spankings but don’t have a partner, you can find one
• If you have a partner and want to learn how to experiment with spankings, this site will help you
• If you explore real life spanking, it can and probably will be as wonderful as you have imagined

Adult spanking for punishment, erotic delight, or both, sometimes in the same session . . . information about spanking, fiction, and real life scene reports with sound clips . . . welcome to my world of spanking.

My privacy policy . . .

I don't share e-mails. I don't sell anything. I don't make any money from this site. I do use StatCounter to keep track of where my visitors come from and what pages they visit most often; see http://www.statcounter.com/privacy.html for details. 

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SAFETY

January 16, 2010

I am convinced that there's not enough information about safety online, particularly for women who want to be spanked and are considering finding a partner in a local BDSM group or online.

I am working to pull together more information on this vital topic. I'll have stories, links, and my own commentary. Today I initiate this section with Annette's compelling narrative, at Annette is Beaten.

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Steph -- Yellow and Red

First I warm Steph up (mild), then I give her a good workout with the paddle (severe).

Something for everyone, at Yellow and Red.

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A Quick Guide to this Web Site

There is a lot of material here (680 pages at last count). Here's how to find what you want.

General information about spanking: About Spanking (everything I can think of) and Teen Guide to Spanking (suggestions for parents who discover that they need to have a discussion about adult spanking with their teenagers--like the "how to talk with your teens about sex" with a twist!)

Real spanking descriptions including sound files and usually some photos: Real Life Spankings

Fictional spanking stories (most by me): Fiction: Stories and More

Spanking monologues--sound files I've recorded describing spanking (and sometimes sexual) possibilities: Spanking Monologues

Photos: sprinkled throughout, with galleries of pix (not usually my own) at Galleries

Information about this web site, readers' letters, and more: Mailbag, About the Web Site, About Me,

Contact Me ... About Me.

A Few Words About Spanking

Spanking and mental health

Are you worried that your interest in spanking means you're mentally ill? Please go to Is Spanking a Sickness?

My definition of spanking

People will sometimes say that “real” spanking involves only a certain position (perhaps over the knee, or "OTK" as it is often called) or attire or implement. This is purely a matter of definition and I don’t let other people’s tastes determine my preferences or the words I use to describe them. I enjoy applying my hand or a hairbrush, paddle, cane, switch, or tawse to a feminine posterior, and sometimes to areas nearby, with her in positions and clothing that range from demure to raunchy. You could say “that’s not spanking—that’s paddling, caning, switching, tawsing, or whatever.” Well, sure, but I need an umbrella term for all of these pursuits, these delectable selections from the array of spank style activities, and spanking is the best term we’ve got.

Because spanking is sexual for many people, the spanking fiction and fact here includes more than just red bottoms; there are occasional discreet depictions of more intimate punishments, wet pussies, and orgasms. But I have participated in spankings with women for whom there was no erotic content, just disciplinary spanking or paddling.

Types of Spanking

Disciplinary or Punishment Spankings

Some people with a keen interest in spanking do not find it erotic. Spanking for them is a punishment for past transgressions and a disciplinary tool to spur them on to better behavior in the future.

Erotic Spankings

Spankings are erotic for you if the thought of spanking turns you on. If you are a sub (meaning, someone who is getting spanked), you may or may not be excited during the spanking, but you find the idea, and the memory, arousing.

Both!

Spankings often begin with disciplinary intent but convert into erotic spankings.

Use Common Sense

The real life spankings presented in the scene reports on this site were successful. Nobody suffered lasting injury and everyone got what they wanted out of the experience. Some of the scene reports involve intense play that would be risky if performed by people with too little experience. If you are a beginner and want to experience intense spankings, just build yourself and your partner up and you, too, can do all of this. The fictional spankings sometimes depict even more intense punishments and are sometimes clearly nonconsensual, but, as they say, nobody was harmed in writing the stories.

BDSM Culture--Not Necessary Here

My focus is on spanking, and I draw on other aspects of BDSM culture only when needed. You can have an entirely satisfactory spanking life without any involvement in, or even knowledge of, BDSM arcana. Don't worry about all that stuff; don't try to conform to anyone else's preconceptions; learn more about who you are and what you want and go where that leads you.

What words mean

Apart from common spanking abbreviations (like OTK for "over the knee"), I do use some terms that are used in BDSM culture. If you are unsure what a word means, it's probably in The Deviants' Dictionary  (http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/index.html) . If you're still not sure, ask me.

Write me!

I love to hear from my readers. Just e-mail me at Doc.Tsai@gmail.com. Don't be shy! I get the most wonderful e-mails from readers, including those with complex questions and those who want to understand something very basic. Write me. It's all good. You don't even have to type the word "spanking" -- I know how hard that can be for a newcomer! But I have just one request--if you write me, please add Doc.Tsai@gmail.com to the "OK" list on your spam filter. I answer every e-mail I get, but I know that at least some of my replies are filtered out and are never read. So please take that one step so you can get my response.

About my name . . .

My name is pronounced “Doc Sigh.” You may see it written DocTsai or doctsai or even Doc Si or Doc Sigh, but the correct form is two words, capitalized, Doc Tsai.

Thanks for visiting!

Doc Tsai

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