Most people who love the idea of spanking yearn to experience the real thing.
If you already have someone to share this exciting experience with, that's wonderful.
If you don't, and you would like to find someone to spank or be spanked by, this section is for you. I'm going to start with what at least should be obvious --
Convert people you know
Perhaps someone you know, even someone you are already involved with, would love to explore spanking but is reluctant to bring up the topic. You don’t have to pour out the details of your secret desires; just say something suggestive and see where that leads. Propose a birthday spanking or say “you should be spanked” for a mistake. What do you have to lose? Just be prepared with a follow-up comment in case your potential partner seems interested in learning more.
If that doesn't work, there are other options, both
in-person and online. In this section, I present my own views; for another
perspective from a woman who decided to actively seek a partner (and who kept a
diary of her adventures), check out
Reclaiming the Fire.