Finding a Partner

Most people who love the idea of spanking yearn to experience the real thing.

If you already have someone to share this exciting experience with, that's wonderful.

If you don't, and you would like to find someone to spank or be spanked by, this section is for you. I'm going to start with what at least should be obvious --

Convert people you know

Perhaps someone you know, even someone you are already involved with, would love to explore spanking but is reluctant to bring up the topic. You don’t have to pour out the details of your secret desires; just say something suggestive and see where that leads. Propose a birthday spanking or say “you should be spanked” for a mistake. What do you have to lose? Just be prepared with a follow-up comment in case your potential partner seems interested in learning more.

If that doesn't work, there are other options, both in-person and online. In this section, I present my own views. This web site also has the narratives of people who wanted -- and found -- spanking partners, including the inspiring stories of Sue at Reclaiming the Fire and of Lisa at Lisa Gets Spanked. Think you could never find a partner? Think again!

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