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Safety

I touch on safety throughout this web site. To be safe, you must be aware of both physical and emotional threats. If you are considering spanking with people you do not know well, the major hazard is physical. If you want to add spanking to the activities you and your lover enjoy, the risk is more emotional; I have a lot to say about that, but nothing as important as what Mary says at Betrayal and Death.

Children

This is not the place to debate whether or not children should be spanked.

There are people for whom spanking has no erotic overtones, and I can understand them debating whether spanking children is an appropriate part of family life today. Certainly spanking was long a customary part of childhood across the globe and still is viewed as usual and customary in many places.

However, I would never dream of being involved in any spanking of children. I would never participate in it, and I will never promote it or discuss it on this web site.

Fantasies are different, particularly fantasies involving teenagers who are below the age of consent but above the age of desire. Fiction is OK. But not the reality, not here.