Name: Satia
Web comments:
Dear Doc Tsai;
First of all, please let me thank you for such an interesting and informative site. I spent many hours tonight, reading and listening to everything I could absorb.
I'm one of those spanko ladies who come out in short geysers of delurking, retreat into silence for a while, then when the pressure is beyond controlling, delurks yet again!
Though I would expect you to suspect my own point of view, I need to tell you that I am also an experienced spankee. At least, I used to be! I spent many years meeting everyone I could meet; men mostly, but some women and couples. But then I spent some time dead to the world, in a type of emotional hibernation that I am prone to use as a defense, and fell out of spanking practice (and living my life) for nearly four years.
I have since reinstated the routines, though not nearly as much as I would like.
(Sorry for telling you all this. I just wanted you to know the pure basics before I went on, so that you would understand a little bit where I'm coming from.)
I never contact a site like I am yours, that I can recall anyway. Normally I delurk on places like Alt.com or the like, seeking meetings.
Here's the thing: I have some questions that I can't ask the individuals I meet for many reasons. 1) Because most people aren't honest with themselves enough to not know an answer. 2) Because most men I meet for spankings don't want to be bothered with the possibilities that they won't be able to fulfill my needs. It breaks the bubble. 3) Because some of my questions are physical, and I certainly haven't met with any doctors for spankings! (That I know of. Back when I was really active, I met with a lot of men without knowing their profession.)
This past week, I've been out searching the web for "spank friendly doctors", hoping to find a safe place to ask some embarrassing questions. Funny enough, I found your site tonight when I did a search just for spanking/discipline rings! Now that I have found your site, like I said earlier, I read everything I could to try to understand you a little, and see if you were a safe person to approach.
Your audio clips are amazing. I love your voice, your tone, and the way you use words to evoke the perfect emotional and mental response! When you slip into that dominant tone, your calm warnings, your words are amazing.
Would it be possible to ask you some serious questions about spanking and my health? I don't want to abuse your schooling by asking for free medical advice, so if you feel I should compensate you for your medical consultation, I would understand. Because my questions are not simple, nor short. (At least, they don't seem that way to me!) I don't mean to offer to pay for spankings or any fantasy, online, erotic role-play! I mean, actual medical advice.
I suppose I should stop there for tonight. Thank you again for a wonderful site. I especially enjoyed those sound clips. If I don't hear from you, especially during this busy season, please just know that you have another fan ‘out there'!
Thanks, Satia
Dear Satia,
Thanks so much for your note.
I’m delighted that you found the site so useful and interesting. Spanking is such a complex and taboo kink; my major goal for the site is to help others find their way on the long path from shame to ecstasy. My own recent divorce has taught me more about this (more than I wanted to know, I’ll admit).
I’m glad you enjoyed the sound clips. Do you mean the spanking monologues, or the scene reports? (I’m working on more of each at the moment.)
The question of medical advice is clear. I can’t give you medical advice; it would be inappropriate to do that when I don’t have your complete background, haven’t examined you, etc. However, I would be more than happy to answer questions about your medical situation to the extent that I am able. So fire away!
Best,
Doc