7/25/2009
Dear Doc,
About your website, thank you (again) for providing more than just the pictures and sound files. I am one of the few who sees spanking as more than just physical, more than just sexual. The connections between spanker and spankee can only be understood if one has either experienced it themselves, or if one has been fortunate enough to browse your site. Other websites (believe me, I've looked!) do not provide the readers an extensive understanding of spanking. Video clips are just "eye candy" for those out there who want nothing more than a quick thrill. Don't get me wrong, I can certainly appreciate those clips, but they do very little for me if in the long run.
About my spanking experience. It was a very thrilling experience because I'm still a newbie in all of this. It all happened less than a year ago. The woman who spanked me is a good friend of mine. We have been friends for a few years and I knew that she was into spanking because when I went to her house she had an arsenal of spanking DVD's and implements. She and her husband play a lot. I asked her how she would feel about spanking me and she agreed without hesitation. We did some role-playing. I was very embarrassed to go over her knee when the time came. I was very tense but I relaxed after a few minutes.
She used her hand at first and then she moved on to the implements, and she used those on my bare bottom. The implements (hairbrush, OTK paddle, strap) hurt, but not too much. I became very aroused, very excited; but it was a little frustrating for me, in a way, because I wasn't able to fully let myself go in the experience. When I say "let myself go" I mean that I would have wanted to feel my pussy during the middle of the spanking like the women do in your sound files. I think that might have made her uncomfortable to have me orgasm over her lap. However, I still loved the feelings that it brought me. But, the spanking she gave me was indeed a good experience. We still talk and play once in awhile.
I am attaching a photo of myself. I am 36 years old and I live in California.
Thank you, Doc, for listening and for taking the time to write to me!
Poena
7/25
You’re more than welcome, and thank you for the photo. You are lovely.
I enjoyed the exciting description of your first spanking. If you would like to tell me more about the spankings she’s given you since then, I would enjoy that.
Are you sure that your friend would be uncomfortable if you climaxed over your lap? Perhaps she would be thrilled!
Doc