7/26/2009
Yes, most guys would want sexual favors in return especially after having a naked bottom over their lap. But I definitely understand. The thought of having a naked bottom over my lap is a turn on for me as well.
The blog probably wouldn't be for me, but what a way to get someone to spank me until I cum!
Anyway, I like your direct approach best. It seems like the most obvious one, why not just be direct, right? I may get the courage to bring it up to her the next time we decide to schedule a spanking evening. We've met up 3 times in the last year so I'm thinking that maybe before the year is over we'll see one another again.
She knows how turned on I get when she spanks me because I've already told her. She said that for people like us spanking is indeed a turn on, but she left it at that.
So as far as your suggestions, I'll opt for #1 (for now) in expanding my relationship with someone I already know. Funny how yesterday I was ready to give up! It would be nice to find someone new to spank me, but getting to know someone all over again seems like more work. I'm sure it's worth it, but maybe I should see where my current situation goes with my friend before I anything else.
Maybe I'm thinking too much about spanking, and the frustration of it all which is why I felt compelled to write to you after all this time. I think about spanking when I go to sleep and then again when I wake up in the morning. And of course throughout the day. I wish I was able to control how often I think about spanking and about how having the "perfect" spanking is something I hope to experience before I die.
7/26
There’s no way to think about spanking less, sorry! But there are ways to experience the perfect spanking – or the many different perfect spankings – if you set your mind to it.
Please let me know how things go when you next meet with her.
And I have a favor to ask you. I get e-mails similar to yours quite often, so I know this is an issue that many people struggle with. Would you be all right with me posting our correspondence in the “mailbag” section of the web site? I would of course take out all potentially identifying information, and would want you to preview it before I post it to make sure that it is just the way you want it. This isn’t obligatory, of course – it’s your choice.
Doc
7/26/2009
Sure, it would be OK to post these e-mails. Please take out my last name, street address, and credit card number, LOL!
Poena