Then we switched positions to where I was over the arm of his couch, and I felt
all types of spankings again ... hand, brush, paddles -- but the sensation was
different. Again ... he was very careful, spanking where I could really feel it,
but not to the point where it was unpleasant for me. I continued to brat a bit
and I was still laughing – all that giggling must have been nerves.
By this time, I had lovely color and we took a picture, so I could remember it.
And then we moved on to the bedroom and here is where we blended our
expectations. He said he is more into the D/s relationship and I'm strictly all
about spanking ... so for my first time with him, we would stick mainly to plain
spanking, but I left myself open minded. He asked if he could tie my hands
together and tie them to the headboard, I would be laying on pillows with my
butt it the air. I did agree to it (we talked about this beforehand – long
before we met). Actually I found it to be quite, hmmmm, I don't know the word, I
don't want to say arousing -- but I think it heightened my anticipation of what
was to come. My legs and feet were free, just my hands were tied (somehow, I
think this will change in the future *wink*). He brought out some different
"toys"-- a large paddle (I would say medium weight), a flogger, and a crop. (ahhh
the blending of both our minds). The flogger was interesting, but didn't give me
a feeling of a discipline spanking at all ... I kept looking back saying, "is
that it?" (ohhh the brat). The crop was fun and definitely gave a good sting; he
even showed me how it is sometimes used between the legs too. The spanking
continued using everything, his hand and his toys. My bottom was now very red
and hot and felt delicious.
Then came the last 10 ... LOL. He took the paddle and really added a wallop to
it. These were much harder and by #7 I wasn’t giggling any more; but what amazed
me, Doc, is that I enjoyed the feeling -- it hurt a lot and I'm not sure how
much more after 10 I could have sustained, but it was definitely a different
feeling than the rest of the time. And I liked it ... I did find myself very
quiet at that point. But he's such a nice guy ... he went and got the lotion and
told me that he had stuck in the refrig so that this time it would be nice and
cold ... it was so soothing. We took more pics and then he untied me ... we
spent the next 30 minutes talking about it, what I was feeling, what he was
feeling.
Doc, I really think he is a great Top (although he likes to call himself a
"Dom") and perfect for my first time. It was more about popping my spanking
cherry and letting me experience many different things. Each of us was getting a
sense of what I enjoyed and what I could handle. He didn't push too fast or too
hard and took such tender care of me in-between each little session. It was fun
-- it showed me that I haven't been wrong about my craving to be spanked and I
felt it was just natural. It filled my expectations, especially the last ten
swats, and has me looking forward to more in the future.
I had told him about your site and how I had gotten so much wonderful
information from the site and you, so we pulled it up to look at and there was
the new session with you and Steph. We listened for a bit to the session and I
turned to him and said, "I'm not ready for a Steph spanking ..." He winked and
smiled and said, "Not yet, but you will be" Somehow I think he's right and I
have a feeling that one day, he'll take me to the level that is right for me ...
So all in all it was a fabulous day ... I'm so glad it happened ... I'm glad I
waited for the right person. I'm so grateful to you and your site because it
helped me know all the right questions to ask and gave me insight as to what to
expect. So thanks Doc ... *Big Hugs* and I do want to come to Houston one day
and be spanked by you ... No, not a Steph spanking ... but a “Lisa” spanking ...
smile!!
Have a great day!
Doc’s words from Nov 2007 came back to me … my first Top was safe and honest. Because of that I had a wonderful first time spanking. I can’t wait for the next time, which hopefully will be soon!
Lisa