Now and then someone e-mails me to say, “I wish you didn’t live so far away.”
But why allow distance to stand in our way? After all, Houston is centrally located and a major airline hub, and why not? Why not live a little?
Once in a while, I am doing the traveling. This allows impecunious students, and single mothers of young children, to enjoy spanking at home. (Before you pull out your calendar, please note that I have very limited free travel time nowadays . . . but it is possible).
But let's suppose that you're the one looking at airline flight schedules. Allow your imagination to run free. Now you are going to visit so that you can have the spanking experience you want and need. Or perhaps you like the approach I describe but what you want most is to be spanked by a woman (Sarah) or a couple (Sarah and me); if so, see Other People.
If you have browsed this web site, you know that I offer intense spankings to women who can't get them at home. But I also enjoy administering milder spankings to women who just want to dip their toe in this exotic experience in a safe setting. Look at this web site as a whole and you'll see how much I want newcomers to feel welcome; that extends to the possibility of visiting for an introductory spanking. I welcome women as they are, no matter where they are in life.
Most women fit easily into the mindset of the spankee, but many women find, sometimes to their surprise, that dishing out the spanking is more fun than they had anticipated (both Satia and steph discovered they enjoyed being the one holding the paddle). If you want to be spanked, that's easy; if you want to do the spanking, that's probably easy as well.
Women sometimes worry that they would be unwelcome because they are not fabulously beautiful, or very experienced, or for silly reasons like their embarrassment about getting extremely wet when they are excited. Trust me, issues like these are, in the great scheme of things, minor indeed. Come as you are.
Some women want and need a prolonged correspondence before they decide to come (Satia and my correspondence is one for the record books). Others spend much less time on preliminaries, and in the space of a few weeks feel totally comfortable visiting.
Whether you want to be spanked by me, Sarah, or both, you probably already have some ideas of what the spanking might be like; but what about the visit?
I will not be your boyfriend, your long-term lover, or your spouse.
When women visit me, they learn more about spanking, and about themselves. Ultimately they use that knowledge to build better lives, with other people taking my place as their spankers. That is natural and as it should be.
I am, in short, a transitional figure.
So what does this mean for you, if I will not be the love of your life?
I will be your spanker, and perhaps more than that.
You may consider me your teacher.
You may find healing in our time together.
Whatever happens, I want you to be stronger and clearer as a result of our relationship.
To learn more about what would happen if you visit, check out How it Works
To learn what patty experienced when she visited, click here: patty
Satia visited me on January 19-21, 2007. Our pre-visit negotiations were extensive and offer a remarkable glimpse into our thoughts and feelings as we discussed her upcoming visit: Negotiations .
The first time Satia visited, I gave her three major spankings all told, one erotic and two serious. You can read about them--and listen to them--at January, 2007 .
Cat came in search of a perfect spanking in March 2007. I spanked her three times; they are all posted at Cat .
Trish and I met when I was on a road trip in her neck of the woods. Yes, this is the same Trish who edited "Satia on Spanking." The link to Trish's spankings will be below once I post it.
Steph is a regular visitor. Not only do I spank her (very hard indeed), she spanks me as well. I am going to post something about that as soon as I have the time. In the meantime, you can enjoy the serious punishments I've given her, already posted here.
I'll try to keep up with other visitors, but can't promise I'll always post a link on this page. In any case, most of the women that I spank nowadays come from out of town.